I manage my husband's profile. He's done FF, mtDNA, and Y up to 67 markers. He's adopted but has reunited with his birth mother and has info on his birth father's family. I don't doubt his mother's report of who his father is, and the resemblance is uncanny, but my experiences with my own family's DNA (NPEs for my mother and now probably my father - testing in progress) have led me to be very cautious about using word of mouth and resemblances as "proof" of anything. To be clear though, I'm not looking for proof of paternity, but rather a connection with the surname, which is unique and hails from a somewhat specific area in Germany, from what I can tell.
Anyway, my questions. At 12 markers he's got 14 matches with a genetic distance of 0. He is designated as R-M269. Some of his matches say R-M269, but others say R-L21, R-L23, one says R-SRY2627 and one R-P311. Either they haven't done more than 12 or they don't match him past 12. Do I just wait for more people to test? The two brothers that know about him aren't amenable to testing, he's never spoken with his father but I doubt there'd be any interest there either, and I guess I could start reaching out to male cousins with the same surname but I have no clue where to point them in regard to which tests to take, if they were interested. He's got no surname matches in FF, and there's no surname project for him to join. He's already on YSearch and has one match that corresponds with one of the 12 marker matches that he doesn't match past 12.
So... thoughts? What's next? I am VERY new at this and appreciate input for a beginner. Thanks!
Anyway, my questions. At 12 markers he's got 14 matches with a genetic distance of 0. He is designated as R-M269. Some of his matches say R-M269, but others say R-L21, R-L23, one says R-SRY2627 and one R-P311. Either they haven't done more than 12 or they don't match him past 12. Do I just wait for more people to test? The two brothers that know about him aren't amenable to testing, he's never spoken with his father but I doubt there'd be any interest there either, and I guess I could start reaching out to male cousins with the same surname but I have no clue where to point them in regard to which tests to take, if they were interested. He's got no surname matches in FF, and there's no surname project for him to join. He's already on YSearch and has one match that corresponds with one of the 12 marker matches that he doesn't match past 12.
So... thoughts? What's next? I am VERY new at this and appreciate input for a beginner. Thanks!

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