Find A Grave

[rainbow]

Yes it is a good site. I've been there for a few years. I've added a lot of memorials for my ancestors. Many people are very helpful there. Volunteers have uploaded requested grave photos for me.

A big surprise was when my mother's first cousin found me there. Long story short, my mother wants nothing to do with said cousin. It has to do with said cousin's mother (power of attorney/executrix) stealing the inheritance of five grandchildren to give to her own daughter (mother's first cousin). She didn't even offer an apology.

[sspeters41]

Using Find A Grave

I have placed a few hundred memorial on Find A Grave. I use the site frequently. My only recommendation would be to include more links to other close family members. Also include obituaries and pictures. I realize that some people are adding many people that they have no connection to and don't have any personal information, but when visiting the site please add anything that you have or contact the administrator and let them know of corrections or additions.

It is a very good site.

[Stevo]

Wow! Good stuff!

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[razyn]

Here are couple of things that have worked for me, without my having planned ahead:

Once I visited a cemetery shortly after a snowfall. I noticed that the side of the stone (monument, really) in the shade was much easier to read because the powdery snow on that side hadn't sublimated away. So I tossed handfuls of the snow onto the dry face, also, and photographed the lengthy inscription (a hymn verse). The optical effect was pretty similar to chalking, with greatly increased contrast, and the snow powder disappeared within half an hour. The photography was done with color slide film.

In the age of digital photography it's possible to play with the contrast, color temperature and other information that your camera has recorded, but you can't see if you don't tinker with it (in the software of your camera or, more simply, your computer -- where the image is much larger). The amount of invisible info recorded seems especially pronounced when the photo was taken in conditions of low light or low contrast, such as heavily overcast skies or twilight.

Btw I agree with Stevo about the usefulness of Find A Grave. It helped me track my mitochondrial line. Sometimes the headstone is about the only record of a wife's name. I haven't recorded any cemeteries for Find A Grave, but I've contributed photos, dates, etc. of some people whose graves were recorded by others.

[Stevo]

You need know about damage caused by cleaning tombstones since any cleaning will rub away stone or cause micro organisms to grow flaking the tombstone. For some non destructive ideas see http://www.ncgenweb.us/newhanover/cem1.html

Wow! That aluminum foil method is amazing! I'll have to try that.

This past summer I found and photographed the tombstone of one of my 7th great-grandfathers, an immigrant from France who died and was buried in 1736. Needless to say, his tombstone is badly worn. I ground up some charcoal and sprinkled it lightly on his tombstone. It worked well and made the inscription stand out in the photographs.

I'm not sure now, after reading those articles, whether or not charcoal could have any negative effects on old tombstones. I tend to doubt it, but who knows?

[mixedkid]

The trouble I can see with Find a Grave is this: It is very easy to confuse people with similar (more likely exact) names, as well as birth or death years. (I've found this with one branch of our family which moved across the Canadian-American border several times in one generation.) Also, although I enjoy studying cemeteries, gravestones are not always correct. Information for the stone was often provided by one relative who may have made a mistake. The error may have been noticed later but never corrected (examples: incorrect spelling of the given name, incorrect birth year). Burial records tend to be more reliable, but even there the information is only as reliable as the one relative who gave the information to the cemetery staff.

[sjadelson]

There's also a lot of helpful people out there.... If you find a listing for a relative that does not yet have a photo of their stone, you can request one. Usually I've had results inside of a week. It's been very helpful to me in my search.

[CAM]

Find a Grave

That's a great link! I use Find A Grave all the time in my research. It's yielded lots of information, and even connections to previously unknown cousins. Any time I plan to visit a cemetery, I check to see if there are any photo requests there.

Thanks everyone I was going to look for a web site about cleaning tombstones. Find A Grave it is a great site I posted some info. on my family yesterday their.
I meet with someone today yes at a cemetery who I hope will turn out to be my fathers 1st half cousin she sent her Family Finder test in 20 Dec no word yet about the test getting their or it being batched. I hope to get the batch date next Thursday.
Praying that yes it will find a second cousin match between her and my father. Then I can be sure who my grandfathers biological mother was no clue to his biological father even the Y-DNA is not allowing us to know that.
The funny thing is our discussion between us for the last 2 days has been on Find A Grave and how to clean a tombstone.

[nathanm]

You need know about damage caused by cleaning tombstones since any cleaning will rub away stone or cause micro organisms to grow flaking the tombstone. For some non destructive ideas see http://www.ncgenweb.us/newhanover/cem1.html

That's a great link! I use Find A Grave all the time in my research. It's yielded lots of information, and even connections to previously unknown cousins. Any time I plan to visit a cemetery, I check to see if there are any photo requests there.

[thetick]

You need know about damage caused by cleaning tombstones since any cleaning will rub away stone or cause micro organisms to grow flaking the tombstone. For some non destructive ideas see http://www.ncgenweb.us/newhanover/cem1.html

[cjm95]

http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=listFaqs#96

[Brunetmj]

Walking through a very old cemetery there were several stones that were unreadable because of moss/ vegetation.
I wonder what the rules are for cleaning old stones?

[Stevo]

Stevo,

Thank you for doing that. As one who uses and has used Find A Grave - people like you who take the time to help record headstones are appreciated by those of us who are looking for records regarding their ancestors etc

-Ronda Miller

You're very welcome. I plan to do a lot more of it.

I'm a teacher, so I have July and most of August off. I figure I can photograph and transcribe tombstones during the summer.

[Peacock100]

Have you all used Find A Grave?

First off, it's FREE.

You can use Find A Grave to search for the graves of your ancestors and relatives. You can also enter burial information that you have that might not already be in their system. The first discovery I made via Find A Grave was where one of my gg-grandmothers is buried and a photo of her tombstone that gave me her exact date of birth (which I didn't have before). Since then, I have gotten all sorts of good information there.

You can also put in requests to have a local volunteer take a photo of your ancestor's or relative's gravestone, in case you don't live close enough to the cemetery to do it yourself.

It seems pretty cool to me. Of course, I have only used it for graves in the USA. I'm not sure how extensive a European database they have.

Yes, I have and there is also a message site I have run into, connected with it. I have found some messages in googling.