Link Matches - so frustrating!

[lanajane]

Since I'm unable to find a way to delete my post, I'm adding to say that I was able to find my error and all is working now.

[lanajane]

I've read just about everything I can find to read about this subject, and just cannot make the "Link Matches" magic happen in my family tree at FTDNA. I've got the DNA match's mother in my tree, and when I drag my DNA match onto the mother's name, the window opens, showing the mother, the father, and it looks like it's placing my match exactly where I want her - which is the daughter. However, the "Confirm" button is grayed-out, so I'm not able to link. What am I doing wrong?