Originally posted by Bre
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Once you decide whatever it is that you want, other than what you mother or anyone else might expect from you, then you can become free of the controlling aspects of familial emotional manipulation, including that of monetary inheritance.
When you do let those expectations go, you will be free of them. But that requires the courage to think and if necessary actually say "no" and be your own person. Your becoming an emotionally mature adult is something money or familial ties can't buy. It is more valuable than remaining dependent upon the goodwill of a manipulative family, or the enticement of any allure of inheritance - which might or might not ever be given to you - if and only when you do that which you have been told to do, with no guarantee that it will ever happen.
Do you want to continue to be controlled by those things? Or can you decide what it is that you want, rather than what others want from you?
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